A friend said to me two days ago, "You've been very down lately."
I have been.
I haven't been able to put my finger on what exactly has been bothering me, but while we were chatting (over the most delicious cup of coffee) my friend pointed it out to me.
The reasons for my funk are twofold.
Firstly, I miss my brother. Things are not better yet and I have come to the conclusion that it's bothering me more than I'd realised. What has made it worse is this: I spoke to my mom about it and I've told her that I miss him and the fact that things are not getting better fast enough for me is making me antsy. She told me that I couldn't fix things (which I know) and also that what I was feeling was directly linked to my ego. :-o
I felt so shit.
Secondly, I think my patience is running out with my matter of the heart.
Well, not my patience so much as... Here's the thing. I was asked for time. Okay, no problem, time is fine. I know you need to sort your life out and I completely respect and understand that.
In the mean time, while not laying it on thick, I am still trying to slowly get to know him.
My problem is that this is one-sided. He's not even trying to get to know me. He has not once asked me anything about myself and if the interest isn't there, well, then okay. BUT TELL ME. So that I know and so that I can grieve the loss/disappointment and move on. Don't ask me to give you time and then...nothing.
So, yeah.
I have been.
I haven't been able to put my finger on what exactly has been bothering me, but while we were chatting (over the most delicious cup of coffee) my friend pointed it out to me.
The reasons for my funk are twofold.
Firstly, I miss my brother. Things are not better yet and I have come to the conclusion that it's bothering me more than I'd realised. What has made it worse is this: I spoke to my mom about it and I've told her that I miss him and the fact that things are not getting better fast enough for me is making me antsy. She told me that I couldn't fix things (which I know) and also that what I was feeling was directly linked to my ego. :-o
I felt so shit.
Secondly, I think my patience is running out with my matter of the heart.
Well, not my patience so much as... Here's the thing. I was asked for time. Okay, no problem, time is fine. I know you need to sort your life out and I completely respect and understand that.
In the mean time, while not laying it on thick, I am still trying to slowly get to know him.
My problem is that this is one-sided. He's not even trying to get to know me. He has not once asked me anything about myself and if the interest isn't there, well, then okay. BUT TELL ME. So that I know and so that I can grieve the loss/disappointment and move on. Don't ask me to give you time and then...nothing.
So, yeah.
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