Thursday 29 November 2012

The Dark Knight Rises

 

So....I've been indulging myself. I spent last Saturday and Sunday evening catching up on movies that I've missed, and also some of my very old favourites.
A real surprise was the new Batman movie.
Now, I love my action movies (especially the ones based on the classic comic books). But when Christian Bale got the part of Batman, I was a little skeptical. And I think I'm only of the only people in the world who did not watch The Dark Knight (I loved Heath Ledger, but he freaked me out and I just never watched it).

But.

The Dark Knight Rises was....simply awesome.
For a few reasons.

1. The support cast was amazing. Bane was freaky, Fox was his usual cool self :)), Alfred was his usual dry self :))). Really really excellent supporting cast.



2. Catwoman. Now, Michelle Pheiffer is a legend. No one can emulate her as Catwoman.
But I have to say, Anne Hathaway did an AMAZING job in transforming into Catwoman. And I love that she didn't try and be like Michelle Pheiffer. She totally made the character new and fresh and KICK-ASS.
And while the chemistry between Christian and Marion was sizzling, I actually liked the banter between Bruce Wayne and Selina Kyle...and the fact that she can kick his ass :)
Seline Kyle - Catwoman

3. The man himself. Like I said, I wasn't really a huge fan of his (and not because of his acting ability because I happen to think he's an amazing actor-I just think he has too much emotional shit in real life and takes his work waayyyy too seriously). But this movie converted me. Damn, but he is fine.













4. And last but definitely NOT least....

HUBBA HUBBBAAAA!!!!

Friday 23 November 2012

Breaking Dawn Part 2 - Part 2 (?)

Let me first say, to my bestie and my baby sis, THANK YOU for going with me to watch it.
I was in a really bad space and was in desperate need of a girls' day.

Breaking Dawn Part 2 was AWESOME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
OMG, I was lauging, and biting my nails, and gasping, and wanting to cry.....
I went through every emotion that I felt the very first time I watched Twilight.
I was excited when the movie started, to see Bella have vampire vision for the first time, and when Emmett arm-wrestled her and lost, and when she was learning to use her shield.
I wanted to cheer loudly when Edward ripped her clothing off in their new bedroom.
I laughed when Bella scolded and attacked Jacob for imprinting on Renesmee.
I was anxious when Irina went to the Volturi and the Cullens started their training.
I almost died when I saw that epic battle scene and Jasper and Carlisle dying (!!!).

And I melted, was excited, fell in love (all at once) when Bella retracted her shield to allow Edward to read her mind.

It was....the perfect ending.

Friday 16 November 2012

Being grown up is hard

I feel like someone who's been submerged in the ocean for a very long time and has just come up for her first breath of air. But the waves are still coming and somehow, the breath I just took doesn't seem like it is enough to sustain me till I somehow get to shore.

Some of our older learners at school will sometimes come and sit in my classroom during one of the intervals, or when their teachers are not at school and I have a free period. They'll come and chat about their lives, the things that happen at school...and as most teenagers do, 90% of what they talk to me about are complaints.
Some days I tolerate it, well, most days. I was a teenager once, and I know that things can seem much bigger than they really are in the mind of an adolescent.

But some days, like the whole of this week, I feel like smacking them. Because they don't realise how easy life is for you when you're young.
Obviously, I do not mean those who find themselves in extremely trying situations...I mean, we have some kids who has alcoholic parents, parents who do drugs in front of them, kids with health problems...the list goes on. And some of these that I've just mentioned, have to, at 12 and 13 years old, be the adults in their families. So, yeah, I get that people sometimes have really hectic problems.

But most of these kids are just so spoiled, and bitch and moan about some of the most unbelievable stupid shit. And I think to myself, 'you little brats don't know what you're in for'. Because life gets so much harder when you grow older.

My sister once told me that we should live our lives with no regrets...not even of the things that we've done wrong in our lives...because then we would be doubting God's plan for us. And I whole-heartedly agree.

But sometimes I wish we didn't have to grow up.

Wednesday 31 October 2012

Having a difficult week

Yesterday I lost my temper with a student.
I scolded her so badly (and so profanely) that she was in tears after class.
And although I apologised to her afterward for losing it, and explained to her why I scolded her (this is one of my more troublesome learners), I still felt like crap.

When I started teaching, I made a promise to myself that I would try my best to approach my job with the student's perspective in mind. Try to make my lessons fun, and all but kill myself to make the child understand. Instil discipline, but be compassionate and understanding towards them.

It's not easy. And the fact that parents are so absent in their kids's lives makes it even more difficult.

It's been a difficult week.
I hope today will be better.

Thursday 18 October 2012

Sahara Park Newlands



Today is the day!

After a real shitty day yesterday, I am looking forward to an afternoon with my sister at Newlands for a Champions League T20 game. This is our thing, this particular sister and mine. And in my humble opinion, there is not a stadium in the world that can rival the beauty and atmosphere at Newlands.
The only thing I would change is to ban drinking from the stadium.

Thursday 11 October 2012

Breaking Dawn Part 2

I've been spewing about some rather serious topics for the last few posts.
So...I thought it's about time for some frivolity :))))))))


EEeeeeeeeeeeeeeeek!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

The mother looks evil :D
Omg....I CAN'T WAIT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Wednesday 26 September 2012

Obama's UN address

Yesterday, I came home from work, warmed me some food and put on the T20 World Cup cricket because my team was playing. My father came from mosque, and switched over to the news channel, which at the time was broadcasting President Barack Obama’s address to the UN General Assembly.
I sat and listened to it while for the duration of my lunch, and heard some things which made me roll my eyes. So today, I came online to see if I could find a transcription of his speech, which I did manage to locate. Because I do not like to pass opinions on things I do not know.
 Just so that no one can say I have taken things out of context, I am going to put the whole transcription up in red (my comments, obviously, will not be in red).
For those of you who did not watch, this is what he said.

Mr. President, Mr. Secretary General, fellow delegates, ladies and gentlemen, I would like to begin today by telling you about an American named Chris Stevens.  Chris was born in a town called Grass Valley, California, the son of a lawyer and a musician. As a young man, Chris joined the Peace Corps and taught English in Morocco, and he came to love and respect the people of North Africa and the Middle East.  He would carry that commitment throughout his life.
As a diplomat, he worked from Egypt to Syria, from Saudi Arabia to Libya.  He was known for walking the streets of the cities where he worked, tasting the local food, meeting as many people as he could, speaking Arabic, listening with a broad smile.
Chris went to Benghazi in the early days of the Libyan revolution, arriving on a cargo ship.  As America's representative, he helped the Libyan people as they coped with violent conflict, cared for the wounded, and crafted a vision for the future in which the rights of all Libyans would be respected.
And after the revolution, he supported the birth of a new democracy, as Libyans held elections, and built new institutions, and began to move forward after decades of dictatorship. Chris Stevens loved his work.  He took pride in the country he served, and he saw dignity in the people that he met.
Two weeks ago, he travelled to Benghazi to review plans to establish a new cultural center and modernize a hospital. That's when America's compound came under attack. Along with three of his colleagues, Chris was killed in the city that he helped to save.  He was 52 years old.

I tell you this story because Chris Stevens embodied the best of America.  Like his fellow Foreign Service officers, he built bridges across oceans and cultures, and was deeply invested in the international cooperation that the United Nations represents.
He acted with humility, but he also stood up for a set of principles:  a belief that individuals should be free to determine their own destiny, and live with liberty, dignity, justice and opportunity.
The attacks on the civilians in Benghazi were attacks on America. We are grateful for the assistance we received from the Libyan government and from the Libyan people.
There should be no doubt that we will be relentless in tracking down the killers and bringing them to justice.
And I also appreciate that in recent days the leaders of other countries in the region -- including Egypt, Tunisia, and Yemen -- have taken steps to secure our diplomatic facilities and called for calm, and so have religious authorities around the globe.
But understand, the attacks of the last two weeks are not simply an assault on America.  They're also an assault on the very ideals upon which the United Nations was founded:  the notion that people can resolve their differences peacefully, that diplomacy can take the place of war, that in an interdependent world all of us have a stake in working towards greater opportunity and security for our citizens.
If we are serious about upholding these ideals, it will not be enough to put more guards in front of an embassy or to put out statements of regret and wait for the outrage to pass.
Err, is this not what the good ol’ USA has been doing since before 9/11??
 If we are serious about these ideals, we must speak honestly about the deeper causes of the crisis, because we face a choice between the forces that would drive us apart and the hopes that we hold in common. Yes, you are right here. Let me honestly say, the nations that assume they are the ‘Powers that be’ should learn to mind their own business and leave other countries (and here I will clearly say, Africa and the Middle East) ALONE. Let them sort themselves out. If they need help, they’ll ask.
Today we must reaffirm that our future will be determined by people like Chris Stevens, and not by his killers.  Today we must declare that this violence and intolerance has no place among our united nations.
It's been less than two years since a vendor in Tunisia set himself on fire to protest the oppressive corruption in his country and sparked what became known as the Arab Spring.  And since then, the world has been captivated by the transformation that's taken place, and the United -- the United States has supported the forces of change.
We were inspired by the Tunisian protests that toppled a dictator because we recognized our own beliefs in the aspiration of men and women who took to the streets.  We insisted on change in Egypt because our support for democracy ultimately put us on the side of the people. We supported a transition of leadership in Yemen because the interests of the people were no longer being served by a corrupt status quo.
We intervened in Libya alongside a broad coalition and with the mandate of the United Nations Security Council, because we had the ability to stop the slaughter of innocents and because we believed that the aspirations of the people were more powerful than a tyrant.
And as we meet here, we again declare that the regime of Bashar al-Assad must come to an end so that the suffering of the Syrian people can stop and a new dawn can begin.
We have taken these positions because we believe that freedom and self-determination are not unique to one culture. But is it fair to say that all cultures have the same notion as to what constitutes freedom and have the same approach to self-determination?
These are not simply American values or Western values; they are universal values. And even as there will be huge challenges to come with the transition to democracy, I am convinced that ultimately government of the people, by the people, and for the people is more likely to bring about the stability, prosperity, and individual opportunity that serve as a basis for peace in our world.
So let us remember that this is a season of progress. For the first time in decades, Tunisians, Egyptians and Libyans voted for new leaders in elections that were credible, competitive and fair.
The democratic spirit has not been restricted to the Arab world. Over the past year, we've seen peaceful transitions of power in Malawi and Senegal and a new president in Somalia.  In Burma, a president has freed political prisoners and opened a closed society.  A courageous dissident has been elected to parliament, and people look forward to further reform.
Around the globe, people are making their voices heard, insisting on their innate dignity and the right to determine their future.  And yet the turmoil of recent weeks reminds us that the path to democracy does not end with the casting of a ballot.  Nelson Mandela once said,`To be free is not merely to cast off one's chains, but to live in a way that respects and enhances the freedom of others.''
True democracy demands that citizens cannot be thrown in jail because of what they believe, and that businesses can be open without paying a bribe.  It depends on the freedom of citizens to speak their minds and assemble without fear, and on the rule of law and due process that guarantees the rights of all people.
In other words, true democracy, real freedom is hard work.
Those in power have to resist the temptation to crack down on dissidents. In hard economic times, countries must be tempted -- may be tempted to rally the people around perceived enemies at home and abroad, rather than focusing on the painstaking work of reform.
Moreover, there will always be those that reject human progress, dictators who cling to power, corrupt interests that depend on the status quo, and extremists who fan the flames of hate and division. From Northern Ireland to South Asia, from Africa to the Americas, from the Balkans to the Pacific Rim, we've witnessed convulsions that can accompany transitions to a new political order.
At time, the conflicts arise along the fault lines of race or tribe, and often they arise from the difficulties of reconciling tradition and faith with the diversity and interdependence of the modern world.  In every country, there are those who find different religious beliefs threatening.  In every culture, those who love freedom for themselves must ask themselves how much they're willing to tolerate freedom for others.
And that is what we saw play out in the last two weeks, where a crude and disgusting video sparked outrage throughout the Muslim world.  Now, I have made it clear that the United States government had nothing to do with this video, and I believe its message must be rejected by all who respect our common humanity.  It is an insult not only to Muslims, but to America as well. Huh? An insult to America? Please enlighten me as to how the degradation of the most important human in the history of Islam is an insult to America.
For as the city outside these walls makes clear, we are a country that has welcomed people of every race and every faith. We are home to Muslims who worship across our country. We not only respect the freedom of religion, we have laws that protect individuals from being harmed because of how they look or what they believe. Okay, so you don’t subject people who wear a veil or a beard to degrading searches on your airports??
We understand why people take offense to this video because millions of our citizens are among them.  I know there are some who ask why don't we just ban such a video. The answer is enshrined in our laws.  Our Constitution protects the right to practice free speech.
Here in the United States, countless publications provoke offense. Like me, the majority of Americans are Christian, and yet we do not ban blasphemy against our most sacred beliefs. Maybe because no one (thank God) has been so crude as to make a movie that depicts Jesus as a womaniser. And I hope that they never do!
As president of our country, and commander in chief of our military, I accept that people are going to call me awful things every day, and I will always defend their right to do so. I hope so.
Americans have fought and died around the globe to protect the right of all people to express their views -- even views that we profoundly disagree with. We do so not because we support hateful speech, but because our founders understood that without such protections, the capacity of each individual to express their own views and practice their own faith may be threatened. And yet, you have a HUGE problem with the way certain Muslims CHOOSE to follow their religion and live their culture.
We do so because in a diverse society, efforts to restrict speech can quickly become a tool to silence critics and oppress minorities. We do so because, given the power of faith in our lives, and the passion that religious differences can inflame, the strongest weapon against hateful speech is not repression, it is more speech -- the voices of tolerance that rally against bigotry and blasphemy, and lift up the values of understanding and mutual respect.
I know that not all countries in this body share this particular understanding of the protection of free speech. We recognize that. But in 2012, at a time when anyone with a cell phone can spread offensive views around the world with the click of a button, the notion that we can control the flow of information is obsolete.
The question, then, is how we respond.  And on this we must agree: There is no speech that justifies mindless violence. I will agree with this, yes. We should respond without violence. But people are not perfect and will react as humans do.
There are no words that excuse the killing of innocents. There is no video that justifies an attack on an embassy.  There is no slander that provides an excuse for people to burn a restaurant in Lebanon, or destroy a school in Tunis, or cause death and destruction in Pakistan.
In this modern world, with modern technologies, for us to respond in that way to hateful speech empowers any individual who engages in such speech to create chaos around the world.  We empower the worst of us if that's how we respond.
More broadly, the events of the last two weeks also speak to the need for all of us to honestly address the tensions between the West and the Arab world that is moving towards democracy. Honestly, the Arab world wants to live their lives according to the true religion of Islam. And Islamic Ideals are in direct opposition to a LOT of the ideals of the West. We DO NOT WANT TO FOLLOW YOUR WAY.
Now let me be clear, just as we cannot solve every problem in the world, the United States has not, and will not, seek to dictate the outcome of democratic transitions abroad. Then why do you feel the need to want to intervene everywhere? Take all your troops out of the Middle East.
We do not expect other nations to agree with us on every issue. Nor do we assume that the violence of the past weeks or the hateful speech by some individuals represent the views of the overwhelming majority of Muslims any more than the views of the people who produced this video represents those of Americans.
However, I do believe that it is the obligation of all leaders in all countries to speak out forcefully against violence and extremism.
It is time to marginalize those who, even when not directly resorting to violence, use hatred of America or the West or Israel as the central organizing principle of politics, for that only gives cover and sometimes makes an excuse for those who do resort to violence. That brand of politics, one that pits East against West and South against North, Muslims against Christians and Hindu and Jews, can't deliver on the promise of freedom.
To the youth, it offers only false hope. Burning an American flag does nothing to provide a child an education. Smashing apart a restaurant does not fill an empty stomach. Attacking an embassy won't create a single job.  That brand of politics only makes it harder to achieve what we must do together, educating our children and creating the opportunities that they deserve, protecting human rights and extending democracy's promise.
Understand, America will never retreat from the world.  We will bring justice to those who harm our citizens and our friends, and we will stand with our allies. So much for “not seeking to dictate democratic transitions abroad”. We are willing to partner with countries around the world to deepen ties of trade and investment, and science and technology, energy and development, all efforts that can spark economic growth for all our people and stabilize democratic change.
But such efforts depend on a spirit of mutual interest and mutual respect. No government or company, no school or NGO will be confident working in a country where its people are endangered. For partnerships to be effective, our citizens must be secure and our efforts must be welcomed.
A politics based only on anger, one based on dividing the world between us and them not only sets back international cooperation, it ultimately undermines those who tolerate it. All of us have an interest in standing up to these forces.
Let us remember that Muslims have suffered the most at the hands of extremism.  On the same day our civilians were killed in Benghazi, a Turkish police officer was murdered in Istanbul only days before his wedding, more than 10 Yemenis were killed in a car bomb in Sana'a, several Afghan children were mourned by their parents just days after they were killed by a suicide bomber in Kabul.
The impulse towards intolerance and violence may initially be focused on the West, but over time it cannot be contained. The same impulses towards extremism are used to justify war between Sunni and Shia, between tribes and clans.  That leads not to strength and prosperity, but to chaos. In less than two years, we have seen largely peaceful protests bring more change to Muslim-majority countries than a decade of violence.  And extremists understand this, because they have nothing to offer to improve the lives of people, violence is their only way to stay relevant.  They don't build.  They only destroy.
It is time to leave the call of violence and the politics of division behind.  On so many issues, we face a choice between the promise of the future or the prisons of the past, and we cannot afford to get it wrong.  We must seize this moment, and America stands ready to work with all who are willing to embrace a better future.
The future must not belong to those who target Coptic Christians in Egypt.  It must be claimed by those in Tahrir Square who chanted, ``Muslims, Christians, we are one.''  The future must not belong to those who bully women.  It must be shaped by girls who go to school and those who stand for a world where our daughters can live their dreams just like our sons.
The future must not belong to those corrupt few who steal a country's resources.  It must be won by the students and entrepreneurs, the workers and business owners who seek a broader prosperity for all people.  Those are the women and men that America stands with.  There's is the vision we will support. The future must not belong to those who slander the prophet of Islam.  But to be credible, those who condemn that slander must also condemn the hate we see in the images of Jesus Christ that are desecrated or churches that are destroyed, or the Holocaust that is denied.
Let us condemn incitement against Sufi Muslims and Shia pilgrims. It's time to heed the words of Gandhi, ``Intolerance is itself a form of violence and an obstacle to the growth of a true democratic spirit.''
Together, we must work towards a work where we are strengthened by our differences, and not defined by them.  That is what America embodies.  That's the vision we will support. Among Israelis and Palestinians, the future must not belong to those who turn their backs on the prospect of peace.  Let us leave behind those who thrive on conflict, those who reject the right of Israel to exist.
The road is hard, but the destination is clear:  a secure Jewish state of Israel and an independent, prosperous Palestine.
Understanding that such a peace must come through a just agreement between the parties, America will walk alongside all who are prepared to make that journey.
In Syria, the future must not belong to a dictator who massacres his people.  If there's a cause that cries out for protests in the world today, peaceful protest, it is a regime that tortures children and shoots rockets in apartment buildings.  And we must remain engaged to assure that what began with citizens demanding their rights does not end in a cycle of sectarian violence.
Together, we must stand with those Syrians who believe in a different vision, a Syria that is united and inclusive, where children don't need to fear their own government and all Syrians have a say in how they're governed -- Sunnis and Alawites, Kurds and Christians.  That's what America stands for.  That's is the outcome that we will work for, with sanctions and consequences for those who persecute and assistance and support for those who work for this common good.
Because we believe that the Syrians who embrace this vision will have the strength and legitimacy to lead.
In Iran, we see where the path of a violent and unaccountable ideology leads.  The Iranian people have a remarkable and ancient history, and many Iranians wish to enjoy peace and prosperity alongside their neighbors.  But just as it restricts the rights of its own people, the Iranian government continues to prop up a dictator in Damascus and supports terrorist groups abroad.
Time and again, it has failed to take the opportunity to demonstrate that its nuclear program is peaceful and to meet its obligations to the United Nations.
So let me be clear:  America wants to resolve this issue through diplomacy, and we believe that there is still time and space to do so. But that time is not unlimited.
We respect the right of nations to access peaceful nuclear power, but one of the purposes of the United Nations is to see that we harness that power for peace.
Make no mistake:  A nuclear-armed Iran is not a challenge that can be contained.  It would threaten the elimination of Israel, the security of Gulf nations, and the stability of the global economy.  It risks triggering a nuclear arms race in the region, and the unraveling of the Non-Proliferation Treaty.
That's why a coalition of countries is holding the Iranian government accountable.  And that's why the United States will do what we must to prevent Iran from obtaining a nuclear weapon. We know from painful experience that the path to security and prosperity does not lie outside the boundaries of international law and respect for human rights.  That's why this institution was established from the rubble of conflict; that is why liberty triumphed over tyranny in the Cold War; and that is the lesson of the last two decades as well.
History shows that peace and progress come to those who make the right choices.  Nations in every part of the world have travelled this difficult  path.
Europe -- the bloodiest battlefield of the 20th century -- is united, free and at peace.  From Brazil to South Africa, from Turkey to South Korea, from India to Indonesia people of different races, religions and traditions have lifted millions out of poverty, while respecting the rights of their citizens and meeting their responsibilities as nations.
And it is because of the progress that I've witnessed in my own lifetime, the progress that I've witnessed after nearly four years as president, that I remain ever hopeful about the world that we live in.
The war in Iraq is over.  American troops have come home.
We've begun a transition in Afghanistan, and America and our allies will end our war on schedule in 2014.
Al Qaida has been weakened and Osama bin Laden is no more. Nations have come together to lock down nuclear materials, and America and Russia are reducing our arsenals.
We have seen hard choices made -- from Naypyidaw to Cairo to Abidjan -- to put more power in the hands of citizens.
At a time of economic challenge, the world has come together to broaden prosperity.  Through the G-20, we have partnered with emerging countries to keep the world on the path of recovery.
America has pursued a development agenda that fuels growth and breaks dependency, and worked with African leaders to help them feed their nations.
New partnerships have been forged to combat corruption and promote government that is open and transparent.  And new commitments have been made through the Equal Futures Partnership to ensure that women and girls can fully participate in politics and pursue opportunity.
And later today, I will discuss our efforts to combat the scourge of human trafficking.
All these things give me hope.  But what gives me the most hope is not the actions of us, not the actions of leaders.  It is the people that I've seen.  The American troops who've risked their lives and sacrificed their limbs for strangers half a world away.  The students in Jakarta or Seoul who are eager to use their knowledge to benefit mankind.  The faces in a square in Prague or a parliament in Ghana who see democracy giving voice to their aspirations.  The young people in the favelas of Rio and the schools of Mumbai whose eyes shine with promise.
These men, women and children of every race and every faith remind me that for every angry mob that gets shown on television, there are billions around the world who share similar hopes and dreams.  They tell us that there is a common heartbeat to humanity.
So much attention in our world turns to what divides us. That's what we see on the news, that's what consumes our political debates. But when you strip all away, people everywhere long for the freedom to determine their destiny; the dignity that comes with work; the comfort that comes with faith; and the justice that exists when governments serve their people and not the other way around.
The United States of America will always stand up for these aspirations for our own people and for people all across the world. That was our founding purpose.  That is what our history shows.  That is what Chris Stevens worked for throughout his life.
And I promise you this:  Long after the killers are brought to justice, Chris Stevens' legacy will live on in the lives that he touched, in the tens of thousands who marched against violence through the streets of Benghazi, in the Libyans who changed their Facebook photo to one of Chris, in the signs that read simply, ``Chris Stevens was a Friend to all Libyans.''  They should give us hope.  They should remind us that so long as we work for it, justice will be done, that history is on our side, and that a rising tide of liberty will never be reversed.
One thing Mr. President: I dunno how Chris Stevens and Iran has anything to do with people being allowed to blaspheme a religion without being held accountable for it. To hide behind the whole freedom of speech thing is cowardly. And lets be honest. If someone were to make a video depicting you in such a light and it were to go viral, you’d wanna hurt somebody too.

Thursday 20 September 2012

Ridicule Islam and Muhammad (ص)? You are only showing how ridiculous YOU are

I am appalled, disgusted, saddened.

Whenever I have a free moment, I try and peruse the news sites so that I have a general idea of current happenings in the world. The number 1 issue in the world at present is the derogatory movie that was made, depicting our beloved Prophet Muhammad (ص) as a womaniser (Astaghfirullah).
Naturally, Muslims are upset and angry.
And I don't know why non-Muslims are surprised at the reaction this has elicited from Muslims around the globe. During the Crusades, any person who didn't follow Christianity, or who spoke out against Christian doctrines was killed. And not humanely either. Men were mutilated, women were raped and burned.

So yeah, we are angry. I do not recall a Muslim ever ridiculing or mocking Moses or Jesus, or any other religion. We are commanded by God to follow His laws, follow His Messenger (and by that, I mean try to emulate him as perfectly as we can, because he was the perfect example of how a human being should be) and we are also commanded to be tolerant of the religious beliefs of others, even if it be contrary to our own.

So today I'm reading the news headlines and I come across this article:
http://news.yahoo.com/french-weekly-publishes-mohammad-cartoons-075449808.html

I don't even want to go into what was depicted in the cartoons.

I would like to say this to the people responsible for the movie and the cartoons, and also to the people who condone and support this kind of behaviour:
No one wants to take away your right to freedom of speech.
What YOU are doing, with your slander and ridicule of the religion of Islam and it's greatest and best example, is an attempt to deny Muslims the freedom of religion.
YOU are showing a shocking level of intolerance. And YOU are showing the world the full extent of YOUR depravity and immorality.

Indeed, if someone can depict any holy and pious person as a womaniser or showing his private areas, then that person is seriously depraved and immoral.
And if you find any of this at all entertaining or humurous, you are equally as depraved as the ones who made it.

May the Almighty safeguard our minds and hearts against such thoughts, and our selves against such behaviour.

Tuesday 18 September 2012

Frederick Wentworth's Love Letter to Anne Elliot

I was talking to a colleague today about embracing e-mail as a faster form of communication.
Many of the educators I work with are much older than myself, there are some who have been in teaching for longer than I have been alive. As experienced as they are, as brilliant at their work as they are, these educators seem to have a serious phobia to some of the advancements of technology. While I have said that technology has had some really regressive effects on children, I do believe that some have had very good uses. And in the professional world, no matter what kind of profession you are in, it is almost obligatory for a person to be contactable by e-mail.

Having said all of that, I am particularly fond of hand-written letters.
And I leave you with my absolute favourite letter....Frederick Wentworth's love letter to Anne Elliot

"I can listen no longer in silence. I must speak to you by such means as are within my reach. You pierce my soul. I am half agony, half hope. Tell me not that I am too late, that such precious feelings are gone for ever. I offer myself to you again with a heart even more your own than when you almost broke it, eight years and a half ago. Dare not say that man forgets sooner than woman, that his love has an earlier death. I have loved none but you. Unjust I may have been, weak and resentful I have been, but never inconstant. You alone have brought me to Bath. For you alone, I think and plan. Have you not seen this? Can you fail to have understood my wishes? I had not waited even these ten days, could I have read your feelings, as I think you must have penetrated mine. I can hardly write. I am every instant hearing something which overpowers me. You sink your voice, but I can distinguish the tones of that voice when they would be lost on others. Too good, too excellent creature! You do us justice, indeed. You do believe that there is true attachment and constancy among men. Believe it to be most fervent, most undeviating, in
F. W.
"I must go, uncertain of my fate; but I shall return hither, or follow your party, as soon as possible. A word, a look, will be enough to decide whether I enter your father's house this evening or never."

Monday 10 September 2012

Why I would like to get married

If you read this blog at all, or know me personally, you will know that I am a Muslim.
And while I have not always followed my religion as I should, I try now to follow it as properly as I can. And this extends to men and dating.

For those of you who do not know, courtship of any kind is prohibited in Islam.
While I have erred in many other aspects of my life, this is one area which I am proud to say I have been quite strict in. So, at almost 30, I have never (not once) been on a date.

Now, I am a strong believer that every person's life has been pre-ordained by God. And I am also a firm believer in the fact that He grants and withholds for your own good and benefit. So I can say with confidence that thus far in my life, with all my shortcomings, failings and tribulations, I do not have regrets.
And although it is something that I would really love, I have made peace with the fact that marriage may not be in God's plan for me.

All that being said, I would LOVE to get married for 2 reasons:
1. To be a mom.
2. So that I may be able to experience what it feels like to go on a date...Dress up for someone, have him compliment me (not with words, just by his expression when he sees me), hold hands, laugh at his jokes...the whole thing.

Monday 27 August 2012

Thanks for the inspiration

People come into your life for a reason. Good ones, bad ones, they serve a purpose, and sometimes it's not clear to us what their purpose is.

There is a particular person in my life for whom I am profoundly grateful.

Our personalities are very different, and I'm pretty sure that when people see us together, it must confuse them as to how exactly we came to be friends. And when I myself think about it, it is odd - a random piece of fiction was the birth of our friendship and I am happy to say that although we have such different personalities, our friendship has matured and blossomed way past that bit of fiction.

I am grateful for her for many things, but the latest thing she is responsible for is the improvement of my health. I've been lucky this Ramadaan past, as it is the first year I have lost a significant amount of weight. To date, it is about 9kg (for you americans, thats almost 20 pounds).
How did I manage this?
By simply following a diet that she is forced to follow for health reasons (this friend of mine is deathly allergic to ALOT of things).

So, Anu, thanks a lot.
You were my inspiration for this and it has yielded results wayyyy beyond my expectations.

Friday 24 August 2012

William Shakespeare: Sonnet 27

Weary with toil, I haste me to my bed,
The dear repose for limbs with travel tired;
But then begins a journey in my head,
To work my mind, when body's work's expired:


For then my thoughts, from far where I abide,
Intend a zealous pilgrimage to thee,
And keep my drooping eyelids open wide,
Looking on darkness which the blind do see 


Save that my soul's imaginary sight
Presents thy shadow to my sightless view,
Which, like a jewel hung in ghastly night,
Makes black night beauteous and her old face new.


   Lo! thus, by day my limbs, by night my mind,
   For thee and for myself no quiet find.


This is my favourite poem.
It expresses (exactly) what happens when someone manages to invade my head space and heart...

Tuesday 14 August 2012

Technology...innovation or evil?

I spent a week of my winter break at my sister's place. She recently moved to this town called Gordon's Bay (on the eastern coastline of the Western Cape in South Africa-for any non-South African readers), and two of its attractions are 1. it is by the sea, and 2. it is close to my brother, who lives in Strand (also a little coastal town about 5 minutes from Gordon's Bay).

One morning, we were at my brother's place. He lives in the house we stayed in before he got married (the home I was born in) and so it always feels like home for me. As a child, we spent almost every holiday there. So that particular morning I was sitting on the front steps of his house. It was about 10am, and it was a beautifully clear day (which is a treat for us Capetonians in the winter).
But I saw no children outside.
The place looks exactly the same...this road looked the same as it always has...and yet, it is not.

I found myself really missing my pre-teen years, because we spent so much of our free time there. And come rain or shine, day or night, we were outside. We hated being in the house.

And it got me thinking- Technology, for all the wonderful conveniences it has afforded us today, has really stunted the development of children. I was not the most outstanding person on the sports field, but, even now at almost 30, I am still quite co-ordinated. Why? Because we weren't stuck inside in front of the DSTV, X-Box, Playstation or computer. Everyone under the age of 17 met outside every single day. When it was summer, we played everything from cricket to hide-and-seek. Come to think of it, when it was winter, we did the same. When it was Super 12 season, we played rugby. When there was World Cup soccer on, we played soccer. When it was Wimbledon, we played tennis. We invented games when we got bored of the usual ones.

More importantly though, we communicated and socialized with each other, face to face. Not through Twitter, MySpace or Facebook.
We didn't know what cellphones were.

So, innovation or evil? RIght now, more an evil than an innovation.
In my opinion, technology is the direct cause for us breeding lazy, obese, unco-ordinated and anti-social youth.

I shudder at the thought that these kids are going to be our leaders tomorrow.

Tuesday 7 August 2012

The Idea of the perfect one

I am of the belief that two people (as in a man and woman) cannot claim to love each other, really love each other, unless they are married and have lived with each other, faults, shortcomings, weird quirks and all. After all, if you can accept and live with someone else's weirdness and still manage to see what is good and beautiful in that person, then I would most certainly believe you when you say that you truly love him/her.

But.
What is it about people that attracts others in the first place?

I find myself in a situation where I can answer the above question with this: It is the IDEA of someone or something involving that someone.

Someone very close to me, indeed someone I look up to as a parent figure, suggested a person that they felt would be perfect for me. This was a few months ago and now I find myself so attracted to the idea of this person...it makes my heart actually quicken when I think of him.

The problem, however, is that we are not in control of what we want to happen...

Friday 27 July 2012

Health Benefits of Fasting

We are on our seventh day of fasting. Gosh, a person is so busy during the day, the time literally flew past. But as I said in my previous post, there is so much blessing in one's time, you can accomplish so much (its amazing how much time we spend on eating!).

Here in South Africa, it's winter for us now, which means that we fast a very short day (less than 12 hours).
For me personally, to go without food or drink is not a problem, but the cold is quite debilitating some times (we are experiencing the coldest winter ever). But as a result of going without food, the stomach shrinks and I've actually found that as we go on, we tend to eat less (and less of the junk as well).

I've noticed some things the past two days though, which just proves that there are definite health benefits to fasting...

1. I don't feel bloated...and this I think is directly linked to the fact that I've been eating a lot less bread, which has prompted me to embark on a wheat free diet...much less cakes, pastries, savouries (coz let's be honest, there is no way that I am going to completely give these things up) and also switching from regular bread to rye and other wheat free types.

2. Eating dates (which is a natural sugar source) kills the cravings for chocolates and other sweet things.

3. Increased consumption of soup makes sure I get in alotta veggies.

4. My eyes are a lot clearer and the irises are brighter (even though mine are just brown, they twinkle in the fast).

5. My skin looks super clean.

6. Increased recitation and listening to the Qur'an keeps the blood pressure down.

So yeah, definite health benefits, not just from a physical perspective but a mental and spiritual one as well.

Friday 20 July 2012

Ramadaan

And so we come to the end of the first week back at school after our winter break.
It's been okay...lots of work (at work and at home).

Tonight is the first Tarawih salah. For those of you who do not know what it is, Tarawih is a voluntary prayer that Muslims perform which is unique to the month of Ramadaan. During the month, the intention is to complete the recitation of the entire Qur'an in the 30 nights. I actually want to go to mosque tonight because we are starting the recitation tonight and the second surah (pronounced soo-rah, and meaning Chapter) is my favourite.

I was thinking again back on how a person's perception of and attitude towards fasting changes over time.
When you are a child, fasting for the first time, all you are worried about is how you are going to manage without food for most of the day. You are excited when it's time to break your fast in the evenings, and you are excited to go shopping for Eid clothes, and just generally excited when the month draws to a close. This phase lasts for quite some time (well into your teens and twenties).

For me personally, this phase ended about 5 years ago.
I was at an institution, doing religious studies, and our lecturers made us see the beauty and benefits of the month. And once you become aware of it, you start to notice other things.

I am a generally pleasant person. But I become downright hyper-happy during this month. It's magical...the atmosphere is just different in Ramadaan. It's as if you can literally taste and feel Allah's love and mercy, and it makes you want to emulate that with whomever you meet or whomever you are with.

Also, its as if the day suddenly has 30 hours in it, instead of 24. There is so much blessing in one's time...and despite the fact that I am without food, I find that I have so much more energy and can get so much more done.

At the beginning of the month, Muslims wish each other by saying "Ramadaan Karim". The word "karim" in Arabic translates as "generous"...and this is very appropriate, as Allah's mercy, love, generosity and blessings is amplified in Ramadaan, to such an extent that our capacity to show mercy and love, and to be generous, is amplified as well.

To all the Muslims reading this post, Ramadaan Karim to you all and to your families. May this month be for you a beneficial one, may the Almighty accept all your good deeds and sincere repentence and may He answer all your prayers, In sha Allah.

Friday 11 May 2012

Time

Does any one else feel that time is moving way to quickly?

I opened my eyes on Monday morning, and was thinking, "Here we go, another week."
I blinked, and it's Friday.

And it made me wonder...am I doing beneficial things with my time? Sometimes I think not. Especially those times when I'm laying on my bed watching a movie, or sitting in the courtyard at school during a free period talking nonsense to my colleagues.

A few years ago, I only thought of doing things that would ensure my own happiness.
And while that is important, nowadays I find myself hoping to leave this world with a little assurance that I made a positive and beneficial contribution to the people around me (and by extension, my community and the world at large).

Tuesday 28 February 2012

update on 2012 so far

It's only the end of February and I feel as though I've done enough for it to be June already.

I've been put back into a classroom (formally, as in subject teaching) as of this year. I was a bit apprehensive at first, but am getting back into the swing of it one day at a time. The first term of the year is always a killer...we've had registration, athletics, excursions...and there's still 4 weeks of the term left!

Things have been eventful on the personal side of things as well. I've had to deal with a sick parent (not fun, and very stressful - I cannot imagine how they must feel when one of us is ill), nephews venturing off into the world alone, a niece that has just started university and her over-protective father freaking out a bit...some male attention (and for those of you who know me personally, imagine a HUGE eye-roll here) and theft.

So, quite an eventful and busy 2012 so far.

Two things have been glaringly apparent (and appalling) to me throughout the 2 months that have passed.
1. People are becoming less and less concerned about integrity and professionalism in the work place. I know things are no longer black and white - things get complicated so quickly these days - but why should we not strive to have a simplistic view of things? I know that in my own life, where I can, I have adopted that philosophy and as a result, have eliminated unnecessary stress. Do your job, to the best of your ability. Ask if you do not know, say NO when you cannot and more importantly, if you fuck up, take your punishment like a grown up. And. LEAVE YOUR PERSONAL SHIT AT HOME.

2. I am very disturbed at how easily people can talk bad about people who are religious. Come on people, really? We are supposed to be progressing but we're worse than cave people. A prostitute can go about her trade, homosexuals are accepted in society and are even allowed to get married, but if someone wants to (of their own free will) follow their religion without it being a hindrance to anyone, that is a problem. To believe in God is something people actually find stupid. I am completely appalled.
More disturbing than that for me though, is how Muslim people are just neglecting essential things in their lives with regards to Islam. Why do you look down and ridicule girls who dress properly and pray regularly? Why do you find dating and courting to be acceptable? I understand that we are a minority in the world...but we will always be. And while we as Muslims may not be perfect, Islam is. And we should strive to practice it as perfectly as we are able.

Monday 23 January 2012

Start of 2012

I started work on 9 January this year.
I didn't really have much of a holiday, and it was further dampened by my sister and I being involved in a car accident just before Christmas weekend.


My first day of work was really great actually. I sat on the bus on my way to work that morning, and just watched people go about their business, and I was just grateful to be alive, and healthy, and able to work.
What pleased me more though, is that during these last two weeks, I've seen these random acts of kindness...
and that's what has been most inspirational and heart-warming. I've also been on the receiving end of some of these acts, and my only resolution this year is to pass them on.


We're into our third week. Things have picked up and today I will find myself in a classroom again for the first time since 2006. I'm a little nervous but also very excited.