I read a blog post on this lady who is having some trouble with finding the right guy (sista, you ain't the only one with that problem).
The following was a comment I left..and I hope it helped somewhat.
What I have made peace with regarding men….
1. Check lists - My signal for when a guy has managed to attract me is, literally, a gut feeling…seismic activity in my belly, and sometimes triggered by someone who has none of the qualities on my ‘check list’…so much so, that the only thing on my check list right now is “Causes seismic activity belly”. Check-lists are for children.
2. Learn to love yourself…it shows (and no, not in the annoying, I-am-so-perfect-whats-not-to-love way)...Others will see it (hopefully the right ones) and respond to it..
3. Multi-faceted - It may not be in God’s plan for your to experience that kind of love in this life. There’s nothing wrong with that. There’s so much more to ourselves than we realise... And while we may not be someone's girlfriend or wife, we are so many things to so many different people...in roles that are equally as, if not more important. Embrace and be proud of what you are right now!
Having said all of the above, it would be lovely to love someone and be loved in return, so do not be afraid to ask Him for what you want…
Who knows, you just might get it
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